Making marriage divorce-proof is not easy. You need to practice many routines in daily life. Couples can become intentional about strengthening their union by adopting a few important practices to forge ties that bring them closer together. This can help them get to know, embrace, and unite with one another, preventing unhappy relationships or even breakups.

 

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Schedule two sessions each week

Couples should schedule two sessions each week to discuss finances, schedules, job commitments, and upcoming possibilities. These gatherings help ensure that both partners are on the same page and supportive of one another. If both parties are aware in advance that they each have a difficult day, they can arrange a meeting to make up for it.

 

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Discover the love language

Discover the love language of your companion to stay married. Gary Chapman‘s book “The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts” explains that there are many ways to give and receive affection. Thomas suggests that we often fail to show people the kind of affection they desire in favor of the way we would like to be treated.

 

Be considerate of your partner’s limits and territory

Be considerate of your partner’s limits and territory, as boundaries are important in a union. Family and divorce lawyer Michelle C. Thomas recalls one pair who got back together after one person moved out. Reconciliation is uncommon, but it occurred after they gave each other some room. When a person feels taken for granted, they cease acting in certain ways, leading to stress and communication issues.

 

Extend your gratitude

Extend gratitude to your partner, even for minor details, to avoid taking them for granted and becoming irate. This can lead to a more contentious conversation, so it is important to keep this advice in mind.

 

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Cooperate in raising the children

Cooperate with your spouse to help them raise their children. This can include returning home early to assist with bath time or taking on school runs. Couples who are less stressed are happier.